ok so say youve outgrown shared hosting because you need things like cron jobs that run longer than a few minutes, a custom runtime, or root access. the VPS route looks cheap on paper.
im fine on a command line, but Ive never been teh only person responisble for keeping a server patched and backed up 🤦 id rather know what Im signing up for before i migrate anything than discover it during an outage.
whats the real ongoing work involved, and are there middle-ground options worth considering first? seriously need help here 😭