flickering secondary monitor since the Intel updtae.

details: two monitors at different refresh rates. it goes black for a moment, comes back, sometimes teh windows jump to the main screen. ive rebooted plenty. id love a checklist rather than random tips, since Ive already tried random tips. i have about an hour tonight to test things, and i would rather go through them in a sensible order. tell me what you would check first and i will report back with results. im about to throw this thing out the window lol
